On other hand, just as there is bad news, so there is good. If you do find where your voice lives, it brings untold rewards in terms of well being, self respect, invitations to work and health. This is the meaning of 'finding your voice'. The greatest immediate effect is that to do so means you have found a particular way of living in harmony with your body. A healthy integration of physical, emotional and mental, of mind, feelings and body which is obvious to others perhaps even more than to you. This is the point at which you get most work. It just all feels right.
As you search for, journey towards, this, the single most important thing to do is to listen. Listen to what your voice wants to do and agree. If it 'isn't working', the only reason is that you are not letting it do so. This is a tough lesson.
In order to learn these lessons we need each other and to share ideas. In the words of the poet John Donne……………no man is an island entire unto himself…………..